My Cell Phone Imprisoned Me

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07/20 /2019, Nijmegen, Nederland


I lost my 2 phones 4 days ago in the train when i fall asleep and of course i am so sad but i learn new lesson for every single thing that happened in my life.

I am sad because i lost all contacts on my phones and can’t call family even friends but the real fact that make me more sad; “i can’t take pictures, i can’t update status on all of my social media, can’t upload photos” in other word can’t showing off my life to people on my social media and i forget to create some private space for my own. 

4 days without phone bring me to get closer to people around me and that makes me realized how addicted i am to my phone.

 I trust myself as a good person for everyone around me but i just find that i am good as a reader on texts, care, show love, respect through “Emojis” on my cell phone which is i can send people cry emojis to show them that i feel them but the fact i might be laughing so hard for scrolling some memes on my cell phone while texting them. How can i be so friendly through screen with people but when it comes to face to face interaction, i become so ignorance person ever because i am to busy on my phone. That’s how my cell phone killing my face to face interaction.

I always heard people said that “cell phone bring you closer to the person far away from you but take you away from the one sitting right next to you” I agree with that statement but keep repeat the habit as “Generasi Tunduk” in Bahasa which means the generation that always looking down when talk to people around. No wonder people called it Cell phone because  I feel like i am a prisoner on my own cell phone.

The point of this article is i don’t said cell phone bad because as we know in many cases, having a cell phone around can be a huge help. In emergencies, you can call the police or a friend quickly. If you’re running late, you can tell someone where you are. The problem is that despite all our raging against bad cell phone habits, they persist unabated.

After all back to my lost story, now i already got a new phone from the one i love. Thank you so much for my bestie that always got my back in Nederland. After got trained for 4 days without phone, i am going to use my phone based on how it's supposed to be use.I might be deactivate some social media for a moment to relaxing myself and give more attention to people around me.

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